well ... me and my lovely boyfriend have been ictis of the hole abortion thing, and luckly we have staydtogther trough it all. Were only young and we oth felt pressured into it, but we both realise now that it was the right dessiocn.

   But i fidning it hardto help him. its 6months on now.. would have been born round about now and it plays on both ourinds.

The thing is he wont allow any help, dismissing it with im a man i can cope.so im asking youh men, help me pleas.

i told himabout this site , saying that itshelped  me, we do talk about it but , he dosent really open up. ihad counselling but he didnt want to take part, but he turned up so i would go bless him.

so i doont no what to do..it stillhurts himi can seee that, but i just want to nois there anything i can do to make it bettr xxx

please help me
 thankyouh