hey my x-girlfriend had an ab 1year ago we really going tru a very hard time and i really need help am i at the rite place?

Hello Danver,
Welcome to SafeHaven! Yes, you have come to the right place. My apologies for the delay in responding. We are extremely short-handed - I've been a chatroom moderator, just came on to make an Announcement Post.

Not knowing any of the details of your story allow me simply to direct you to Optionline - the information is here on the site. Specific abortion recovery groups that I have first-hand knowledge of are Forgiven & Set Free, Surrendering the Secret and SaveOne. SaveOne (Sheila Harper) has a women and men specific parallel books and Forgiven & Set Free also has a study specificly for men, Healing a Fathers Heart". There are also sites, two that I am acquainted with are:
http://www.fatherhoodforever.org/
www.lifeissues.org/men/resources.html

I encourage you to contact Optionline or one of these groups.
God Bless you as you walk this journey of healing - I've been where you are, there is hope and healing available.
Colorado-lori
(my email the site here does not work (never has), my short story is on the staff/moderators page)