I'm 19 , I've had one pregnancy before ,but it ended almost as fast as it started. They called it a chemical pregnancy , it's where it just doesn't take & the fertilized egg comes out on your period. My fiancée & I were devastated , we really wanted it . We later realized we didn't want kids right now , as things (financially) started going down hill .

But now , after months of NOT trying I'm
pregnant. I'm 5 weeks , there's only an empty sack ,no heartbeat & the cramping I'm having ....it brings me to tears . I found out I was pregnant & most likely going to miscarry all in one day. My doctor says I'll end up miscarrying , but not for probably another 4-5 weeks .I can't deal with the pain for that long.The pain , there's no words to describe....I can't take it.

The decision I came to , it tears me up.I've decided to get the abortion pill, my appointment is this coming friday. This kills me , I just keep thinking what if I wasn't going to miscarry & I'm throwing away something I've ....we've always wanted.I can't talk to my fiancée, it'skilling him to see me in this much pain &I don't want to add more pain to him .

I'm soo nervous , afraid , & majorly guilty. Any advice , or words of wisdom would really help me right now . Thankx

Dear Angel,
Thank you for sharing your heart with us, it is an honor that you would come to us for help. After seeking the Lord about your situation, I believe that He wants you to get a second opinion with another doctor(christian doctor, if possible) as soon as possible. I don't want to alarm you, but I personally have experienced 5 miscarriages after my abortion and 3 of those were tubal pregnancies, requiring emergency surgery. It sounds to me like you may very possibly have a tubal pregnancy, with the excruciating pain that you are experiencing. They would be able to see it on an ultrasound, probably a pelvic sonogram. There are alot of adverse, serious side effects that come as a result of taking the abortion pill, so I would seriously suggest that you not take that chance, since you are already in alot of pain. I personally was between 4 and 8 weeks with each of my pregnancies, so I understand the pain that you are experiencing completely. May I ask if the doctor you saw did an ultrasound for you?
Please keep in touch, if possible, I am praying for you,
Nona