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smidgit

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10/06/2008 4:07 PM
a year ago in august i found out that i was 2 months pregnant. at that point in time i was in a abusive relationship and his family and mine made sure i had an abortion. its now jus a year on and im really struggly im in a new relationship with who was my best friend for a few years and now is my boyfriend who is this perfect guy who treats me like a goddess but i feel so empty from the abortion and crave another child. he is not ready and wont be for a few more years which i can understand. i cant talk about my unborn child to him as he refuses to talk about it but wont tell me why. i have noone else though to talk to. i feel like i got no one and im struggling to cope with my unborn child who i have named olivia all though i know it was wrong to name the child it helped me after the abortion. can someone please help because im really struggling with life and im always emotional and take it out in anger on my new partner and cry my self to sleep all the time.

Patty

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10/08/2008 7:01 AM
Welcome Smidgit, A lot of us have named our child. My daughter Heather, was aborted in 1978, I was 16. My parents made me only to find out in 2002 that it was illegal to do that to me. I suffered for many years. I found a Lady with the pregnancy crisis center who helped me to deal the death of my child. I did a bible study and found a group that had also had unsolved feelings about what we had done. I learned that forgiveness helped a lot and to know that I was not alone in my journey to healing. Safe Haven also has chats scheduled listed on the left of this page. If you can please go and chat with them. I also suggest a bible study group it will help the sorrow. A lot of us care about you and will help you on your journey. Please read the Post Abortion Syndrome symptomology and see what applies to you. I had a replacement child before PAS was written. It did not replace the one I lost. My thought and prayers are with you. Cyber hug, Patty

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10/09/2008 8:51 PM
Hey smiget! Im kirsty, and 8 months ago I also had an abortion. Im sorry to hear your situation, I cant imagine how hard that was. The parents of your ex had no right to force you into anything! I know how sad and upset you are because I myself cry myself to sleep at night. I named my baby too...Devon-lee (daughter) it has helped me too. I reallly want to know where she is and if she is mad at me. I cant fix your pain sorry, but believe me, if I could I would. I guess we just have to look at whats ahead of us and acknowledge whats happened. I am just as confused as you are and I do hope your okay..Please reply back..I need someone to talk to just as much as you do! All the best XxXx

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