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regretful090206 User is Offline

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07/05/2008 6:00 PM
my baby jamie would have been 2 years old next month. i dont know what has made me sad today. i think about her all the time. but today the tears have returned. im tired. im tired if feeling this pain. i want my little girl in my arms. i want to feel complete. i miss her. i need her.

RIA

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07/06/2008 11:38 PM
Can't say that it is OK.....it has to be the WORST pain ever!!!! I recently had an abortion and it was the WORST decision I have ever made in my life ...at 26....I can't beleive what I've done...or why...I think I paniced....also I think bec my fiance wouldn't support me I got scared......my body aches with pain....I feel terrible...I'm hoping this site can help....I do the same thing.....I say WOW I would be 6wks pregnant right now? I also wonder where the baby is?? If he or she knows that I TRULY LOVE THEM and am sorry....that it wasn't my right....I feel for you....I'm sorry your in pain xoxo

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07/07/2008 8:20 AM
Dear (((Regretful))) and (((RIA))), First may I say - You are NOT alone. What you are experiencing is very real and I (and most everyone who is on this site) is experiencing or has experienced the very same. I would like to commend you both for your courage in seeking out this site and sharing. Simply by looking for and asking for help you have taken a very important step towards healing your pain. It may sound like a cliche but there is healing in Jesus. I don't know what your beliefs are in God, Jesus, etc. but I would encourage you to continue coming in. Some of the biggest lies out there is "you are all alone in your pain" and "you shouldn't feel this way, get over it". We know how real the pain of abortion is and we are here to help, the purpose of this site. I would encourage you to come into chat, whenever is convenient for you, to visit with others who have (or are still) going thru what you are. There is strength and encouragement in talking with others-no judgments (I moderate the early Fri nite chat). Check out further resources on this site like optionline.org We love you and are praying for you! Lori (aka Colorado-lori)

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