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jen

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06/30/2008 9:25 PM
About 8 months ago i had an abortion(i did it because he wanted me to) and right after my bf left me even though he said he loved me and would never leave me.My parents won't talk to me anymore after they found out and i fell so alone. i feel like i have to deal with the pain of the abortion all by myself. I have trouble sleeping and cry all the time and sometimes i don't even want to get out of bed because of what i did to my baby. i fell like i have no one to talk to.

regretful090206 User is Offline

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07/01/2008 11:59 AM
i'm glad that u have found safehaven. here there are people who understand your pain and will listen when u want to talk. im sorry that you are suffering and that you feel alone. it is a difficult time. i wish i could comfort u with some words that would make it better but i know that nothing any one says will fill the void that you feel inside you. just know that one day it will get easier. it will never be better but one day u wont cry every day. it took me two years to get to the stage where i could get on with my life. i still think about my little girl jamie every day . i miss her desperately. one day i will be with her again. but until that day i am preparing my future so that the next time i fall pregnant i can provide the best life for my child. my mother always says what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger... and now i am out the other side of the darkest time of my life i believe the same. i believe i must suceed to make sure my awful decisions can in some weird way be justified. chat to people in the chat rooms. you are not alone here. i hope this helps in some small way. you are in my thoughts and prayers love jemma xxxxxxx

Jessie

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07/02/2008 12:27 AM
(((hugs))) to both of you...my ab was 27 years ago and i also will always regret it, but God wants to heal and forgive. You can go to www.optionline.org and find a pregnancy resource center in your area. Most have post-ab recovery help. You will be met with caring and support. You are not alone. Believe it! And regretful is right, chat can also be a real help. Remembering you in thoughts and prayers.

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