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regretful090206 User is Offline

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06/21/2008 6:49 PM
I haven't posted in a long while because i was having problems with my account. I was dazed-and-confused have now reregistered so i can post. I'm struggling today as one of my very close friends has had an abortion today. I feel so sad for her and i wish i could protect her from the pain that i experienced but i can't. she came to me for advice as she knows that i have had an abortion. she also knows how badly i delt with it. i did my best to give her unbiased advice without pushing my experiences to her. i tried to explain that in my eyes it must be her decision and no one else's. all the time i was talking i wanted to scream "don't do it, don't kill your baby don't feel guilty like i do, dont have regrets" but i knew that wouldn't be fair on her. it is not my place to make judgements and decisions for her. i just want her to be happy and i know that this will hurt her. how can i help her get through this? x

lorie3:15

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06/21/2008 11:43 PM
I was in the same situation about 1 year when a co-worker was having an affair and ended up getting pregneat. I pleaded with her i explained to her how she would fell after but i didnt seem to get through to her. She ended up having an abortion at 12 weeks and yes she regreated it regreated it so much that she had her husband get her preagneat to fill that void. Anywyas when she came to me and told me how she regreated it i shared scripture with her on how God forgives and loves her. We are not perfet we are human and the enemy attacks. What the devil uses for evil God will use for good my co-worker gave herself to the lord and know she is forgiven. I dont know if this helps much but just thought id share.

Lorena I will hold you in heaven

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06/26/2008 2:06 PM
(((regretful))) and also to (((lorie))) How painful it is to share your heart only to have the person you are sharing it with continue down the same path of bad choices and ultimately regret. I applaud you for having the courage to share with these other women, it took a lot for you (both) to step out like that. I hope that your friendship will continue with each of these other women and that you will all find the healing that you are seeking ~ it is found in Jesus. Please continue to visit us here at SafeHaven; there is so much strength in knowing that you are NOT alone. I would encourage you to continue seeking the Lord for your healing. We would love to chat with you, to encourage you and simply get to know you. Check out the Chat Room schedule.

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